If you clap for your child, they might not feel that inner feeling anymore but focus more on your sense of pride, your happiness, and enthusiasm instead of their own feeling of pride and happiness from within. As a result, they might start doing things specifically to make you clap enthusiastically, doing it for the applause. And where is their own inner sense of motivation then?
Continue readingWhen I was pregnant, I felt the remarkable need to connect to other upcoming mothers. I was a late mom, so I did not have much pregnant couples around me. Therefore I looked for groups to do pregnancy gymnastics, yoga, or something similar. Unfortunately, all pregnancy exercises did not start until the fifth or sixth month of the pregnancy. Besides, they were aimed at giving birth. I was confident that my body knew what to do when giving birth, so I did not find that the most important part. What I did want, was to involve the father of my child in the pregnancy during the complete process, while pregnancy groups only invited the fathers a few time at the end.