If you clap for your child, they might not feel that inner feeling anymore but focus more on your sense of pride, your happiness, and enthusiasm instead of their own feeling of pride and happiness from within. As a result, they might start doing things specifically to make you clap enthusiastically, doing it for the applause. And where is their own inner sense of motivation then?
Continue readingOur brain is incredibly versatile. We have incredible physical capabilities and athletes prove that there is room for more, because records are kept being broken. We can achieve a lot with our minds. For every problem, there will be someone to solve it. This is how our brain works: when a question is asked, an answer is developed. What is particularly special, is that we can imagine all kinds of things. We save images of the past, and we create images of the future. We fantasize about the things that will happen and the more vivid the imaginations, the more real they seem.